Sex

What is sex? Is it a form of loving that will bring a couple to a closer relationship? Or is it an activity that give lovers some moments of joy together? Is it an act of love that one person shows to her partner? Is it an item to be used to bargain for another? Is it an action that will produce the next generation? Is it a job that is as old as sin?

I believe that a person's body should only be given to another when she is not being pressured or stressed or convinced or conned or traded. It maybe her first experience or it maybe her 100th but as long as at each and every time she does it, it is with someone that she deeply cares for. The reason I put it as "deeply cares for" is because sometimes we do not know whether we love the person. However, we know that we care about their being and that we are interested in their lives and their feelings. It may be someone that passed through your life, someone that made an impact on it or it may be one that will remain in your life forever.

People might say that in terms of sexual relationships, women will be at the losing end. However, I feel that if the person you are sleeping with is someone that you care about and that the person has some feelings for you as well.. then why not? It gives pleasure to both parties and if protections are being used.. then no harm will come to both of them. It gives comfort when you need it, it brings companionship when you are lonely and it makes you soft when you are harden by the world.

Sex with guys or girls are essentially the same. As in the end, we all seek the same thing, Love.